Explorer, man get real. I'm not much of a drinker. I usually just have ice water. Just because it is there or other people are have a drink with their dinner does not mean I have to. Trust me, I have just as much fun and enjoy my meal just as much with my water. If others want a cocktail that fine with me, some times I even join in. There would be enough people there to help you through the dinner. If they knew you were allergic to sea food, they would not let you order it. People do care. And let me tell you what, just because they serve broccoli, don't mean I got to eat it. I got will power!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!